Respect Yourself!

When you respect yourself, so everybody will do so.

When you keep yourself clean, everybody will be clean for you.
When you keep be nice, everybody will be nice for you.
When you always be neat, everybody will be neat for you.
And,
When you treat yourself carelessly, some people will treat you so.

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I was texting with my friend tonight.
I asked him, "What's the different of Women and Men's feeling?"
"Women is more 'dumbfounded' than Men," he said.
"When will Men be dumbfounded?"
And his answer made me shocked, "When they see a Women naked on 'em."

See?
Mostly men think about it. So you have to keep you genitalia. You have to respect yourself, because a man will respect you if you respect yourself.
If you wear a good dress, that keep your genitalia, they won't be abusive you about your "curve".

Don't act like a b!tch, it only will make you in danger. Do you think men love it? Okay, yeah, they love it, but a real good-man won't let you to do this.
A real-good-man will treat you in a good way.
"A good human, only for a good human." right?
Treat yourself in a good way, okay?
Be nice.
Be bright.
Be humble.
Be better day-by-day.

I remember my high school's friends. They call me "Ms. Hygienist ". Why? Because they know that I'm hygienic on everything. I really choose about what I'm gonna eat, always make sure that it's good for health. So they always gave me good meal.

"When you treat yourself in a good way, everybody will treat you in a good way."

Once again, respect yourself!

Sincerely,
-Ismidita ;)

Don't Worry, Just Give :)

To give what you need, what you want, and what you love.
It looks like not easy. But hey let's think again.

You feel a bad thing, you won't let people you know to feel it so.

Like,
When you got a broken heart, so you don't want your best friend to feel it to. You won't let that thing's gonna happen to him/her. Because you know that's a bad thing.

Okay, I know not every one can do this, but at least, that's me. I don't want my best friends to feel any bad thing.

Well, let's back to the point, at the first sentence.

I give you an example.

When you need a help, and no one helps you, you feel so bad, right?
So you help people cause you know about how it feels when someone help you.

When you want somebody to come around and he/she can't come up, you feel so bad.
So you come to people who want your attendance, because you know how it feels when you have someone to rely on.

When you love something but you can't get it, you feel bad.
So you give what someone loves because you know how happy if someone gives you something you love.

It's like what happen to me today.
Lately I've been feeling so rude. And at some points, I want someone to ask me "why". Not just a "why", but a really "why". Do you know what I mean?
Okay, I'll explain to you.
Today, I feel bad again. Badmood.
You know how someone face when she got badmood.
So some people who know me asked me "why do you look so mess?" or "why are you so sullen?" or something like that.
But when I answered with a smile or nod or something like "It's okay.", they just walked away and like don't want to know my real answer.
What I want is someone who could come in front of me, and asked me "why?" seriously. The one who really wants to know my real answer. The one who really want to know about what happened to me that could made me so sullen.
Do you get it?

I got someone, anyway. In my past. The one who I want. But that was my past.

And I live in the present. Someone who I hope being my-The-One is not like what I hope to.

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Then I got a message from my mom, "We give what we need, what we want, or what we love to people around us. Because we know how it feels when we get something we need, we want, or we love."
Then I smiled. That's really a good quote.

I'm with my mom.

Don't you ever worry about loosing something, because you'll receive something you deserve in the right time.
Sometimes it comes by itself, sometimes it needs our struggle to get what we deserve.

Just give what you need, you want, or you love. Don't worry, you'll get something you deserve in the right time.
Just spread the happiness. Don't worry, happiness will come around to you.

Just give with pleasure, you'll get more than what you give.
In the right time.
And be thankful, then happiness will come around.

I love to be pukpuk-ed, so I pukpuk-ing someone who I think she/he needs it. Hehee :D

Sincerely,
-Ismidita :)

p.s. a picture in this article is mine. I have a copyright ;)